This is a long, long overdue post…
Any bigger person, if they’re really being honest with themselves, has what I call secret fat behaviors. Just as Carrie Bradshaw and the gang had their SSB (secret single behaviors), we’ve got our SFB. Things only relevant to life as a larger person. Things and behaviors you keep to yourself and try to hide from the rest of the world.
Take, for example, my cankles. Totally embarrassing, totally not in line with the feminine ideal.
Last night at boot camp, we were doing calf stretches when I looked
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